Actually, that's a lie. I do wanna grow up. I'm soon to be 35 and in
most societies, that would qualify me as having grown-up status. But,
some days and in some ways, I feel SO not like a grown-up.
John Scalzi's assignment 77 is about whatcha wanna be when ya grow up? And what did your parents want you to be when you grew up.
When I was a child, I wanted to be what I thought were the only to
options available to females: a nurse or a teacher. Actually I wanted
to be both. And sometimes I threw in a totally unrelated occupation
like ventriloquist. In my spare time, of course, I would volunteer for
libraries and teaching english as a second language.
My parents, I think they just raised me knowing that I would go to
college and kick proverbial ass at whatever I decided to do. Even if
it was raising chickens in Montana. In undergrad, I majored in German,
Philosophy, and Sociology.
I did my Master's in Sociology. My partial PhD is in Sociology. And
guess what? I've been teaching at various colleges and universities in
PA, GA, AL, and MS for about 15 years. Including, working in the
student health center as an undergrad (I was not a nurse though) and
later a clinic the year I turned 30 (still not a nurse). Nursing is
not an occupation I see in my future.
For the first time in my life, I am considering the wife/motherhood
route. In addition to being a sociologist. And the cool thing is,
what I've always wanted to do, deep down, was be a story-teller.
Sociology can be about crafting stories of cultures and such. So, I
might yet have all the best aspects of the world.
Ya know, when I grow up.
15 September 2005
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I tried mine in the other order - did the wife and mother thing first and now at 38 I'm back in school working on the degree. Somedays I think this would have been so much easier if I would have done it the other way around! http://journals.aol.com/pixiedustnme/Inmyopinion/entries/1271
ReplyDeleteYou will be great at whatever you choose, Doodle.
ReplyDeleteI think that after you got everything in sociology you will make a wonderful mother..."when you grow up."
ReplyDeletehttp://journals.aol.com/dragonrose3911/PIT/entries/670
I'm with you. Let's stay kids!
ReplyDeleteJimmy
I love the truth in this! It took me a while to unravel all the junk woven into who I was, before I got honest with myself...now I'm on my way to who I really am. ;) C. http://journals.aol.com/gdireneoe/thedailies
ReplyDeleteWhy grow up when its so fun staying a kid? lol
ReplyDeleteKristina
http://journals.aol.com/skunkyrip/NewBeginnings/entries/754
My german is touchy, and I'm working on an article for a defense contractor's magazine. How do you say, "movement to the east" in a manner that looks like "drang nacht osten"?
ReplyDeletemonponsett, i answered your question as best i could in the comments for your scalzi post. debra
ReplyDeleteDeb,
ReplyDeleteI feel so stupid compared to you! Master's, partial PHD! JEEZ!
I couldn't even get through one college semester...
Would love to know what colleges you taught at in PENNA...Just moved from Pa.
Thank-you for your complimentary comments in my journal recently. It makes me feel like I may not altogether have a cow's brain!
Maryanne