Beider is more and more docile with me, altho he is not very social with the other furrbees. He doesn't fight them (except when he is eating; so I feed him outside while the others are inside, chowing down) but he isn't overly friendly with them either.
I see him hesitate on the fringes, watching the others play their reindeer games. Sometimes, it seems he starts to join in, but then I think the mere sheer joy of their enthusiasm confuses and scares him. I feel for him.
It's like he's Emo-dog.