snafu

oohps.

my dear friend who was my stand up woman? well, yesterday, i discovered that she has a fear of water. and our wedding ceremony is to take place on a pier. so, uhm...i didn't see that one coming.

but! no problem.

at first i thought that we could just do a lake side ceremony, and then jerry and i could go out on the pier for pictures. but then the more i thought about it, the more i decided, no, i really want the ceremony on the pier. so, there are a few other options.

for the moment tho, i stand alone. maid-less. which isn't a bad thing, and really, since we are all gonna be kinda cozy out there, i doubt that it'll make that much of a difference. it's not like a formal wedding party with symmetric balance must be achieved. at least, i don't think so.

dad'll walk me down the pier, and all the folks will already be lining the way and out on the deck. and jerry will be standing right there with the preacher and his man. mom'll be right there. and so will lots of loved friends and family.

ya know, i can dig the whole 'only me in a dress with flowers' thing.